Saturday, January 19, 2008


This week I received an e-mail from a friend of mine and I thought the words to be so true as I read it. I just had to pass it on to my friends.

When I was little, I used to believe in the concept of one best friend, and then I started to become a woman. And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up, God would show you the best in many friends. One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man. Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mom. Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities. Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be. One friend will say, 'Let's cry together,' another, 'Let's fight together,' another, 'Let's walk away together.' One friend will meet your spiritual need, another your shoe fetish, another your love for movies, another will be with you in your season of confusion, another will be your "clarifier", another the wind beneath your wings. But whatever their assignment in your life, on whatever the occasion, on whatever the day, or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back, or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself .. those are your best friends. It may all be wrapped up in one woman, but for many, it's wrapped up in several.. one from 7th grade, one from high school, several from the college years, a couple from old jobs, on some days your mother, on some days your neighbor, on others, your sisters, and on some days, your daughters.

The graphics with the e-mail were also very cute, but the words were what made the impact on me. I have been so blessed with a wonderful set of friends over the years, but I think that this really helps us all to realize the importance of our friendships. I hope it also helps us to be better friends to others.

I hope everyone has a great weekend and may your team win tomorrow!


  1. So true! I loved that!!! I am so glad that thanks to a question about quilts you and I became friends! See you soon!!

    PS I don't want to go on this trip as I have gained so much weight since I fell this summer! SIGH....... Not really but it's a pain in the big butt, nothing fits.

  2. Oh know the theme of the weekend is to eat more. Do you think anyone really cares about our weight???? I gained 15 pounds after I broke my back a few years ago and am still trying to get rid of it. GRRRR! I, too, am thrilled to have become friends. I can't wait to pick your brain once I see you. Won't be long now.

  3. I am glad you came over to visit me today, and hope you'll come back again. It is always fun to make a new blog friend!

    I have read something like this before and love it. It is so true.

    I also love the story about your mom - what a fabulous woman she is! And beautiful.

  4. Yes, I have received this email and the graphics are cute. I don't know that any of us can have too many friends. lol